CLIMBING, WORKING, AND FINALLY GETTING MARRIED
As I've mentioned several times already, in Torah 10 of "Likutei Moharan" Rabbeinu discusses three stages of attaining something new in spirituality: a mountain, a field, and a home. At first a new insight or ability seems too lofty and far from our ordinary life; then it becomes closer but still requires much toil to internalize and make our own, until, finally, we feel truly at home with it. Today I'd like to connect these three stages to the famous idea from Torah 6, "<...> a person has to be baki (expert) in Halacha . This demands that he has two types of expertise: baki b'ratzo ("expert at running") and baki b'shov ("expert at returning")." Here Rabbeinu explains that there is no such thing in spirituality as always ascending, or always walking on level ground; there will be countless ups and downs, and so he teaches us how to deal with them. First, we have to be able to run up a mountain without ever slackening our...